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April 10, 2017

Why No Contact is So Hard After an Abusive Relationship with a Narcissist, Borderline or Psychopath

If you still believe you love your narcissistic, borderline or psychopathic ex, practicing and maintaining No Contact can be very difficult initially. Excruciatingly, painfully difficult. Many of my clients compare it to withdrawing from a drug. Neuro-chemically speaking, there are similarities. You’re hurting, and you want the pain to stop. To ease the pain you […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Abusive relationships, Borderline Personality Disorder, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Healing, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic abuse, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Personality Disorders, Relationship Advice, Relationships Tagged With: abuse, blame shifting, borderline personality disorder, domestic violence, Dr Tara J. Palmatier, emotional abuse, FOG, gaslighting, healing, healing from narcissistic abuse, histrionic personality disorder, JADE, low contact, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic personality disorder, no contact, projection, psychological abuse, psychopath, sociopath

October 30, 2013

In His Own Words: Self-Reflections at the End of an Abusive Marriage

It’s day 30 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. TI85 reflects upon his marriage, his behavior and his soon-to-be ex’s behavior as he begins the divorce process. He experienced several kinds of abuse while married, including gaslighting, emotional abuse, physical abuse, jealousy, rage, passive aggression, blame […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Blame, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Psychological Abuse, Rage Tagged With: abused man, abusive mother, abusive wife, abusive women, blame shifting, emotional abuse, gaslighting, jealousy, physical abuse, psychological abuse, transactional relationship

October 29, 2013

In His Own Words: FUBAR

It’s day 29 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Christopher is married to an abusive alcoholic woman whom he suspects has borderline personality disorder. Christopher, my advice to you is stop trying to protect and help her, and focus on protecting and helping yourself instead. Otherwise, […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Borderline Personality Disorder, Domestic Violence, False Allegations, Physical Abuse, Psychological Abuse, Rage Tagged With: abused men, abusive women, alcoholism, borderline personality disorder, BPD, domestic violence, domestic violence awareness month, emotional abuse, in his own words, physical abuse, psychological abuse

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