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August 19, 2019

Blame and Rage: What Narcissists and Borderlines Call Problem-Solving [Video]

Emotionally immature people typically have poor problem-solving skills, or a complete lack of them. In intimate relationships, narcissists and borderlines bully, guilt trip, play the victim, throw tantrums, become physically violent, destroy property, disappear, give the silent treatment, name-call, blame shift and engage in other dysfunctional behaviors to silence criticism, evade accountability and justify not […]

Filed Under: Abusive relationships, Accountability, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Blame, Borderline Personality Disorder, Codependent, Domestic Violence, Healing, Healthy Relationships, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic abuse, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Personality Disorders, Professional Victims, Relationship Advice, Unhealthy Relationships, Video

July 18, 2019

Narcissist Dictionary: Wheel of Blame

Step right up and spin the Narcissist Wheel of Blame! There’s a 40% chance it’ll land on you! Narcissists and other emotionally immature, self-absorbed disordered individuals typically have a lifelong pattern of blaming others, the world, inanimate objects, the dog, the weather, what their parents did to them 50 years ago, -isms and anything, everything, […]

Filed Under: Abusive relationships, Accountability, Blame, Meme

March 29, 2018

Why Do Narcissists Enjoy Conflict and Drama?

Why can’t she just stop? Why does he keep doing this? I don’t even know what the arguments are about half the time anymore. We keep going around and around in circles. Just as things seem to be calming down and we’re getting to a good place, she or he starts back up again. I’m […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Abusive relationships, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Blame, Borderline Personality Disorder, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic abuse, Narcissistic Personality Disorder Tagged With: abuse, abusive wife, borderline personality disorder, chaos, drama, false self, guilt, high-conflict, JADE, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic personality disorder, obligation

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