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October 29, 2013

In His Own Words: FUBAR

It’s day 29 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Christopher is married to an abusive alcoholic woman whom he suspects has borderline personality disorder. Christopher, my advice to you is stop trying to protect and help her, and focus on protecting and helping yourself instead. Otherwise, […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Borderline Personality Disorder, Domestic Violence, False Allegations, Physical Abuse, Psychological Abuse, Rage Tagged With: abused men, abusive women, alcoholism, borderline personality disorder, BPD, domestic violence, domestic violence awareness month, emotional abuse, in his own words, physical abuse, psychological abuse

October 23, 2013

In His Own Words: Violent Alcoholic Wife Attacks (VAWA), Part II

It’s day 23 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Gabu’s saga, Violent Alcoholic Wife Attacks (VAWA), continues in today’s In His Own Words. This selection of journal entries depicts how Gabu was able to obtain a protective order and have his alcoholic, undiagnosed borderline personality disordered […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Accountability, Blame, Borderline Personality Disorder, Child Abuse, Custody, Divorce, Domestic Violence, False Allegations, Financial Abuse, High-Conflict, Judicial Abuse, Legal, Parental Alienation, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Psychological Abuse, Rage, Stalking and Harassment Tagged With: abuse, abusive mother, abusive wife, alcoholism, benevolent sexism, borderline personality disorder, child abuse, domestic violence, physical abuse, psychological abuse, rage, sexual abuse, Stalking and Harassment

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