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November 17, 2020

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: Being “the Asshole,” Part 2

In part one of this series, I explain why co-parenting with a narcissist means being “the asshole.” To clarify, being the asshole doesn’t mean being an arrogant, controlling, unreasonable jerk. Rather, it means being indifferent to the narcissist’s opinions and feelings about you. It means practicing accountability and becoming immune to the borderline’s continued attempts […]

Filed Under: Abusive relationships, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Child Abuse, Codependent, Custody, Divorce, Healing, Healthy Boundaries, Healthy Relationships, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic abuse, Narcissistic Personality Disorder

September 8, 2019

Boundaries Protect You from Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 3: The Very Basics

In Part 1 of this series, I discuss the importance of the law of reciprocity. If a relationship isn’t reciprocal, it will eventually become a source of anger and resentment. Healthy relationships can’t exist on a one-way street paved with double standards. Part 2 explains the joy of saying no. I discuss secondary gains and […]

Filed Under: Abusive relationships, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Child Abuse, Codependent, Healing, Healthy Boundaries, Healthy Relationships, Narcissistic Personality Disorder Tagged With: boundaries, relationships

August 22, 2019

That’s Not Normal: Posts “Does Mommy Look Hot” Selfies [Meme]

If you can’t recognize this red flag, please schedule an appointment with your eye doctor to inquire about being declared legally blind. At the very least, you should qualify for a seeing eye dog. There’s so much that’s unhealthy about this it’s difficult to know where to begin. Participate in the Shrink4Men Facebook page discussion […]

Filed Under: Abusive relationships, Borderline Personality Disorder, Child Abuse, Dating, Healthy Relationships, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Meme, Narcissistic Personality Disorder

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