Do you know what stalking is? Would it surprise you to know that many of your girlfriend’s, wife’s or ex’s “nuisance,” clingy, possessive, angry, threatening, internet search, social network, text/telephone/email and/or destructive behaviors qualify as stalking and harassment? Has your ex ever used family court, CPS, law enforcement, civil court and criminal court to stalk […]
Presto, Change-o, DARVO: Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender
Have you ever wondered why your narcissistic or borderline spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend or ex is able to do and say the most hurtful, underhanded and contemptible things and then portray themselves as the innocent victim? Do you marvel at how they’re able to aggress and then convincingly accuse others (usually their victims) of the very […]
High-Conflict and Abusive Personality-Disordered Women: The Emotional Judging Mind Vs. the Discerning Mind
The following article was written by one of my clients, also a doctor, but in another health field. He’s the same client who created the High-Conflict Phases of Abuse, Blame-Shifting, Distortion, Rage and Manipulation Diagram. In the article below, he sorts out the difference between having a judgmental mind versus having a discerning mind. He […]