Why are narcissists and borderlines, like Amber Heard, such convincing liars? What motivates them to fabricate abuse claims, and how do they manage to deceive not just friends and family, but even trained mental health professionals? It’s critical that male victims of false abuse allegations know the answers to these questions as matters of self-defense […]
Boundaries Protect You from Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 1: The Golden Rule
If you’ve been in a relationship (or series of relationships) with emotionally manipulative, self-absorbed, empathy-challenged, immature people, I have to ask, do you have healthy boundaries? Any boundaries? Do you know what a boundary is? Perhaps you have some boundaries, but they were too anemic to deter a determined emotional predator. Thus, your boundaries were […]
Don’t Let the Narcissist Determine your Sense of Worth
Remember the childhood adage that was supposed to make us feel better when we were bullied? Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me. Our parents tell us that when we’re kids, but it’s cold comfort at the time. Name-calling hurts when you’re a kid. It can also hurt as […]