When your BPD wife tells the couples therapist she feels “unsafe,” what do you do? Same goes for a histrionic, narcissistic or some other Cluster B variety-pack high-conflict personality wife, girlfriend or ex — what do you do? If you’ve never been physically violent or made threats of physical violence, don’t minimize or ignore the […]

Are you vulnerable to love bombing? Is it difficult for you to resist the high of what feels like intense instant attraction? Do you believe in love at first sight? Do most of your relationships begin and end with a “bang,” albeit different kinds of bangs? For example, they begin with crazy chemistry and end […]

Do you know the false abuse allegation risk factors for men in relationships with borderline, narcissist or histrionic women? If you’re married to one of these women, it’s essential that you do. There’s a lot at stake. Including the relationships with your kids, your reputation, livelihood, freedom and physical and emotional well-being. Typically, the cleverer […]