Clients are often plagued by seemingly endless ruminations after breaking up with a toxic girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse. This is typically due to codependency and the insidiousness of the trauma bond. In my experience, there are specific kinds of rumination and stages of rumination that track with the grief process. https://youtu.be/IUbYGAmid_I READ FULL TEXT ARTICLE […]
VIDEO: The Difference Between Genuine Admiration and Love Bombing
Do you know the difference between love bombing and genuine admiration and affection? First, respect and appreciation don’t occur at first sight. It develops over time. If you’re vulnerable to love bombing, this video discusses how to distinguish between insincere flattery and the real thing. https://youtu.be/WesrOvuJIJk READ FULL TEXT ARTICLE HERE. Counseling, Consulting and Coaching […]
VIDEO: What Narcissists and Borderlines Mean by “Unconditional Love”
Being loved unconditionally by your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend seems reasonable, right? Wrong. Unconditional love is for children, not adults. Even with kids, good enough parents love their children, but correct them when they misbehave and teach them right from wrong. What toxic personalities often mean by “unconditional love” is love without accountability. In […]
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