Healing trauma from relationships with narcissists and borderlines, histrionics and the Cluster B variety pack can be difficult. Yes, some clients who’ve had the misfortune to become ensnared by a NPD, HPD or BPD have an easier time than others. These individuals aren’t my typical clients, however. They’re different in two respects. People who have […]

What does it mean if a narcissist says they hate you? To put it bluntly, it means they hate you. It’s harsh, but true. When a narcissist, borderline, histrionic or other Cluster B variety pack person says, “I love you” it doesn’t mean “I love you” the way it does to a normal or a […]

How can you tell if a narcissist is really sorry? Easy. They’re not. Genuine remorse requires the ability to take responsibility for one’s actions. It also requires empathy and a conscience. Abilities and qualities that personality disordered people typically don’t possess. Perhaps they’re capable of approximating empathy, accountability and the ability to feel shame every […]