In part one of Love Bombing, Brainwashing, Trauma Bonds, Narcissists and Borderlines, I examine brainwashing techniques used by cults, POW camps, political movements and manipulative personalities such as narcissists, borderlines, histrionics and psychopaths. I also explore where and how the brainwashing tactics differ and diverge between cults and abusive individuals. Specifically, cults break down a […]
That’s Not Normal: Hurting Yourself to “Prove Your Love” to a Narcissist or Borderline
First, stop it, stop it, stop it! Just stop. Unless you’re a modern day messiah or member of some kind of bizarre-o volcano god cult that requires human sacrifice, stop and consider what you’re doing. This is codependent behavior and evidence of a betrayal bond or trauma bond. People who love you and want you […]
That’s Not Normal: False Equivalencies in Relationships with Narcissists and Borderlines
This anecdote is from the client files. First, this man isn’t a porn addict. In other words, he wasn’t watching pornography 24 hours a day, 7 days awake. He also prefers having sex with an actual woman to viewing Internet porn). However, he was is a sexless marriage for years and didn’t want to cheat. […]
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