“I’d end the relationship, but the sex is the best I’ve ever had.” “It’s like porno sex.” “She was like an animal. She wanted it all the time.” “She did the most outrageous things. We had sex in the restaurant bathroom stall on the first date.” “We used to have sex all the time. She […]

In Love Bombing, Brainwashing, Trauma Bonds, Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 2, I discuss similar traits that cult victims and victims of narcissists and borderlines share. Specifically, the personality characteristics that make them vulnerable. I also and the similar necessary conditions to successfully brain wash and to create a codependent-trauma bond attachment. Vulnerabilities include the 3 […]

DARVO (deny, attack and reverse victim and offender) is a tactic often used by narcissists and other characterologically disturbed individuals. Basically, the narcissist accuses their victim of being the aggressor while the narcissist claims to be the victim. It’s a combination of gaslighting, projection, blame shifting and smear campaign. And it is crazy-making if you’re […]