What do narcissists mean by, “Let’s make a fresh start?” To paraphrase The Princess Bride’s Inigo Montoya, it probably does not mean what you think it means. In my experience, narcissists, borderlines and other emotionally manipulative people have their very own lexicon. While the words may read and sound the same as their entries in […]

So, you’re attending couples therapy with a narcissist or borderline. Good luck with that! Kidding aside, if you’re seeking help, you may be walking into a buzzsaw if you’re a man and the abuser is a woman. Nowadays, there’s a strong anti-male sentiment in Psychology. Couples therapy with a narcissist and anti-male bias oftentimes becomes […]

Is filing a restraining order against a narcissistic or borderline ex worth your while? Can a restraining order stop the online and offline stalking and harassment that many narcissists and borderlines   engage in after the relationship is over? Do the courts grant restraining orders to men against women? The answer to all of the […]