Will my BPD ex be different with the next guy? Am I giving up too soon? If I try a little more, maybe things can go back to the way they were? Will the next guy get all the love, sex and the nice version of her I could have again if I just hang […]

Amber Heard’s “Consequences Are Unfair!” smear campaign interview with Dateline’s Savannah Guthrie is a smorgasbord of self-serving, self-pitying, long disproved bullshit. On the other hand, it’s also a great example of what I call the professional victim’s Victimpalooza Tour. Claiming false victim status is something many narcissists, histrionics and borderlines do at the end of […]

All kidding aside, you can relate, right? As many clients can attest, narcissists and borderlines sabotage relationships. No matter how hard (or harder) you try to love and help them, their destructiveness to self and others persists. For those who haven’t figured it out yet, love does not conquer all. Furthermore, “love” (i.e., codependency-driven people […]