What does it mean when a narcissist or borderline ex contacts your therapist? There are several possible answers to this question. Nevertheless, they all boil down to a narcissist is going to narcissist and a borderline is going to borderline. Over the years, client’s exes and spouses have tried to contact me. I say, “tried,” […]

What do narcissists mean by, “You can’t survive without me?” According to the Shrink4Men Narcissist Dictionary, that’s a lie. Narcissists and borderlines want their targets to believe this. Nevertheless, it’s just another one of their lies and projections. Seriously, what exactly is it about the narcissist or borderline you can’t live without? Their sunny disposition […]

Couples therapy with narcissists and borderlines can be tricky. It can also worsen problems if the couples therapist doesn’t understand the underlying issues. Namely, an undiagnosed personality disorder(s), codependency and/or trauma bonding. Ideally, couples therapy can be a fruitful endeavor when two adults equally commit to improve themselves, their relationship and grow together. Couples therapy […]