Many clients become hyper-focused on spotting personality disorder Red Flags after being in a relationship with an abusive narcissist, borderline or psychopath. They’re reluctant to date again until they feel certain they’ll be able to detect all the warning signs. This is understandable. After being burned that badly, of course you don’t want to go […]

To a narcissist or borderline, the more right you are the more wrong you are. Conflict is about getting a win. The substance of the argument is irrelevant. The narcissist’s and borderline’s false self demands that they be the “righteous victim.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Id48mtAwXro&lc=Ugyti7AHmLH0IxIOegB4AaABAg Counseling, Consulting and Coaching with Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD Dr. Tara J. […]

If this is your first Christmas, Hanukkah and New Year’s after breaking up or divorcing your abusive narcissistic, borderline or sociopathic ex, you may be feeling lonely. Maybe you’re second guessing yourself, wondering if breaking up was the right decision. What if you’d just given her or him a 2,483rd chance? What if you could […]