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March 28, 2012

Hoovers: Don’t Let the Crazy Suck You Back In

On the Shrink4Men Forum, there are several gentlemen in the process of ending relationships with abusive wives and girlfriends. Predictably, this has triggered their partners’ abandonment fears and control issues. Oftentimes, when an abusive personality senses they are losing their target/victim or that their target/victim is pulling away, they will make efforts to re-secure their […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Borderline Personality Disorder, Dating, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Healing, High-Conflict, Marriage, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Stalking and Harassment, Unhealthy Relationships Tagged With: abuse, abused men, abusive personality-disordered individuals, abusive women, borderline personality disorder, concern troll, dissociation, domestic violence, emotional blackmail, emotionally abusive women, fear, FOG, guilt, hoover, hoovered, hoovering, love bombing, manipulation, obligation, parasucidal gestures, personality disorders, personality-disordered individual, physical abuse, relationship recycling, trance

March 8, 2012

Crazy Bitch the Musical! The Professional Victim’s Narrative and Why She Won’t Be Different with the Next Guy

Why did she treat me so bad? How can she move on to the next guy so quickly? What does he have that I don’t have? What if I’d only done this instead of that ? What if I’d said x instead of y? Did she ever really love me? She says she’s never been […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Domestic Violence, Healing, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Personality Disorders, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse, Relationships Tagged With: abuse, abused men, abusive women, antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, dating, healing, histrionic personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, obsession, Professional Victims, relationships, repetition compulsion, rumination, scripts, sociopathic women, sociopathy

February 27, 2012

Wouldn’t It Be Great if High-Conflict People and Abusive Personality Disordered Individuals Came with Warning Labels?

A gentleman sent a link to the cartoon below and it got me thinking. Wouldn’t it be great if high-conflict people (HCPs) and abusive personality disordered individuals (PDIs) came with warning labels? What kinds of warning label symptoms and side effects should your abusive, high-conflict and/or personality disordered wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend or ex had […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Personality Disorders Tagged With: abusive personality disordered individual, antisocial personality disorder, ASPD, borderline personality disorder, BPD, HCP, high-conflict people, histrionic personality disorder, HPD, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, PDI

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