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March 15, 2022

What Does “Honoring My Feelings” Mean to a Narcissist?

What does “honoring my feelings” mean to a narcissist or borderline? Short answer: Run for cover! Incoming one-sided, self-serving, emotional bullshit! “I’m just speaking My Truth!” is a variation of “honoring my feelings,” with which you may also be familiar. When a narcissist or borderline declares either, break out the rubber boots and pooper scooper. […]

Filed Under: Abusive relationships, Borderline Personality Disorder, Codependent, Dating, Domestic Violence, Gender differences, Healing, Healthy Boundaries, Healthy Relationships, Personality Disorders, Psychology, Relationship Advice

November 21, 2017

Characteristics of Professional Victims

Does your spouse blame you for everything that’s wrong in the marriage? Does she or he refuse to take responsibility for their actions, especially the cruel and deceitful ones? Do you frequently feel forced into acts of contrition, like you’re forever obligated to make it up to your partner, girlfriend or boyfriend? If so, you […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Abusive relationships, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Domestic Violence, Healthy Relationships, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic abuse, Negative Advocates, Personality Disorders, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse, Psychology Tagged With: borderline personality disorder, false self, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissists, professional victim, projective identification, psychopaths, victim playing

November 16, 2017

Gemma Hartley: Don’t Call Her a Whiny Nag — She Has Emotional Labor Trauma!

Gemma Hartley, freelance stay at home blogger and mom, penned an article that went viral in September 2017 titled, Women Aren’t Nags — We’re Just Fed Up, under the category gender equality. If you don’t feel like reading the whole thing, here’s a succinct summary: Upper-middle and upper class white women — we have it […]

Filed Under: Gender Issues, Humor, Psychology

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