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August 24, 2011

False Allegations in Divorce and Custody Battles: The Personality Types of False Accusers and the Falsely Accused

Too many men have become the targets of false allegations. False allegations of domestic violence. False allegations of sexual assault. And false allegations of sexual abuse. False allegations are lies and people who make false allegations are liars. A false allegation of abuse isn’t just any lie; it’s one of the most contemptible lies that […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Accountability, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Blame, Borderline Personality Disorder, Custody, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Financial Abuse, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Legal, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Negative Advocates, Parental Alienation, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse, Rage, Sexual Abuse, Stalking and Harassment Tagged With: borderline personality disorder, false accusations, false allegations, false allegations of abuse, false allegations of domestic violence, false rape allegations, high-conflict, high-conflict custody, high-conflict divorce, histrionic personality disorder, Paranoid Personality Disorder, passive-aggressive

July 6, 2011

To the Victim Go the Spoils: False Allegations, Men as Default Scapegoats and Why Some Women Get Away with Murder

Look at that poor woman crying! I wonder what he did to her? Pretend the image on the left is a Thematic Apperception Test card and make up a story about it. Is the woman crying because she discovered her boyfriend had been cheating on her, dumped her and emptied their joint account to go […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Blame, Domestic Violence, High-Conflict, Negative Advocates, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse, Stalking and Harassment Tagged With: abusive personality disordered individual, antisocial personality disorder, Avoidant Personality Disorder, borderline personality disorder, Casey Anthony, Dependent Personality Disorder, Dominique Strauss-Kahn, Dr Tara J. Palmatier, empathy, high-conflict people, histrionic personality disorder, Julian Assange, narcissistic personality disorder, Paranoid Personality Disorder, professional victim, Shrink4Men, sympathy, Tracy West, Warren Farrell

May 3, 2011

The Divorce Danger Zone and the Power of NO: Giving in to a High-Conflict Ex in Order to Finalize a Divorce Is Often a Big Mistake

Many men who are going through a divorce with a high-conflict (HCP) and/or abusive personality disordered wife (e.g., Histrionic, Borderline, Narcissistic, Antisocial, Avoidant, Paranoid and Dependent Personality Disorders) think that giving her everything, appeasing her or making concession after concession will satisfy her and expedite the divorce process. This is usually a mistake. A big […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Divorce, Healing, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Legal, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Personality Disorders Tagged With: abused men, abusive personality disordered individual, abusive women, antisocial personality disorder, APDI, Avoidant Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, danger zone, David Pisarra, Dependent Personality Disorder, divorce, divorce attorneys, Dr Tara J. Palmatier, HCP, high-conflict, high-conflict people, high-conflict women, histrionic personality disorder, marriage, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Paranoid Personality Disorder, power of no, Shrink4Men

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