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July 25, 2011

Parallel Parenting: You Cannot Co-Parent with a High-Conflict, Abusive and Crazy Ex

Many Shrink4Men coaching clients find it impossible to co-parent with their high-conflict, abusive, crazy, golden uterus and/or abusive personality disordered ex-wives and ex-girlfriends. In most cases, these men weren’t allowed to effectively co-parent while their relationships were still intact with their exes. Their role as father was consistently undermined, devalued and challenged from the start. […]

Filed Under: Custody, Divorce, High-Conflict, Legal, Parental Alienation, Personality Disorders Tagged With: abused men, abusive women, co-parenting, crazy women, custody, divorce, golden uterus, high-conflict person, high-conflict women, high'conflict ex, parallel parenting

April 25, 2011

Why High-Conflict and Abusive Personality Disordered Women Drag Out the Divorce Process

Many abused men who have made the difficult decision to divorce a high-conflict, abusive and/or abusive personality-disordered wife are rarely able to make a quick and easy escape. I commonly advise clients who are about to begin the divorce process to prepare for false allegations of abuse, financial chicanery (e.g., hiding funds, identity fraud, inflated […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Custody, Divorce, Financial Abuse, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Legal, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Negative Advocates, Parental Alienation, Personality Disorders, Professional Victims, Unhealthy Relationships Tagged With: abused men, abusive ex-wife, abusive personality disordered individual, abusive personality disordered women, APDI, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, control freaks, custody, danger zone, David T. Pisarra, divorce, divorce attorney, Dr Tara J. Palmatier, ego annihilation, ego preservation, emotionally abusive women, entitlement, HCP, high-conflict, high-conflict custody, high-conflict divorce, high-conflict individuals, high-conflict people, high-conflict person, high-conflict wife, high-conflict women, hostile dependency, marriage, narcissism, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, NPD, psychological abuse, Shrink4Men

April 13, 2011

OurFamilyWizard, Part 2: Common Excuses Made by High-Conflict Parents Not to Use OFW and Effective Counter-Arguments

OurFamilyWizard: An Excellent Tool for Co-Parenting with a High-Conflict Person, Part 1 explains what the OFW parenting communication system is, how using it can help minimize the stress of dealing with a high-conflict ex and co-parent, how it can be used to document abusive and other inappropriate co-parenting behaviors and other general benefits of the […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Accountability, Custody, Divorce, Domestic Violence, High-Conflict, Legal, Parental Alienation, Personality Disorders, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse Tagged With: abuse, abusive personality disordered individual, accountability, antisocial personality disorder, Avoidant Personality Disorder, borderline personality disorder, co-parenting, Dependent Personality Disorder, Dr Tara J. Palmatier, HCP, high-conflict custody case, high-conflict divorce, high-conflict parent, high-conflict person, histrionic personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, OurFamilyWizard, parental alienation, PAS, Shrink4Men

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