Many Shrink4Men coaching clients find it impossible to co-parent with their high-conflict, abusive, crazy, golden uterus and/or abusive personality disordered ex-wives and ex-girlfriends. In most cases, these men weren’t allowed to effectively co-parent while their relationships were still intact with their exes. Their role as father was consistently undermined, devalued and challenged from the start. […]
Why High-Conflict and Abusive Personality Disordered Women Drag Out the Divorce Process
Many abused men who have made the difficult decision to divorce a high-conflict, abusive and/or abusive personality-disordered wife are rarely able to make a quick and easy escape. I commonly advise clients who are about to begin the divorce process to prepare for false allegations of abuse, financial chicanery (e.g., hiding funds, identity fraud, inflated […]
OurFamilyWizard, Part 2: Common Excuses Made by High-Conflict Parents Not to Use OFW and Effective Counter-Arguments
OurFamilyWizard: An Excellent Tool for Co-Parenting with a High-Conflict Person, Part 1 explains what the OFW parenting communication system is, how using it can help minimize the stress of dealing with a high-conflict ex and co-parent, how it can be used to document abusive and other inappropriate co-parenting behaviors and other general benefits of the […]