Getting married is a big gamble if you’re a man. Even a woman you think you know very well can morph into another person as soon as you say, “I do.” While some predators and sociopaths are able to keep the mask on until after the wedding ceremony, there are still some warning signs and […]
Personality Disorder Diagnoses in Family and Divorce Court: Pros and Cons
Recently, I received an email asking about the significance of an actual personality disorder diagnosis in a divorce or custody case: How helpful are psych evaluations in custody and divorce cases? Does it matter if you can get a personality disorder diagnosis, or is it ultimately irrelevant—unless it’s accompanied by severe acting out (e.g., hitting […]
Rudeness, Stress and Abuse are Neurotoxins: Children Who Witness Spousal Abuse Are at Risk
The only reason many men stay in unhappy relationships with abusive women is out of love and concern for their children. I’ve lost count of how many of my coaching clients have said, “If it weren’t for the kids, I’d have left a long time ago.” Some men stay because they believe they’re protecting their […]