It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Unless you’re married to a narcissist or other entitled, high-conflict partner. In which case, gird your jingle bells and prepare to fail. No matter what you do or don’t do, it probably won’t be good enough. Even if you follow your adult toddler’s Dear Santa list to […]
Surviving the Holidays with a Narcissist
Ding, dong! Ding, dong! Ding, dong! Ding, dong! It’s the most trigger-ful time of the year! With Narcissists yelling And Borderline dysregulation swelling, inducing fear It’s the most trigger-ful time of the year! It’s the crap-crappiest season of all! With fake Facebook greetings, emotional beatings And your family forbidden to call It’s the crap-crappiest season […]
Dealing with a Borderline Ex-Wife: It’s the Most Drama-Filled Time of the Year!
My husband and I both dread the holidays. All of them, really. All holidays give his BPD (borderline personality disorder) ex-wife an excuse to either stroll down ancient memory lane, demand money, or screw with the visitation schedule. However, no other holidays turn the ex-wife’s drool into froth like Christmas and New Year’s. Why? She […]