When their lips are moving! Har-dee-har-har! A Shrink4Men forum member once shared an explanation about narcissists, psychopaths and borderlines’ propensity for dishonesty and the confusion it creates in their victims. It’s stayed with me ever since, one, because it’s funny and, two, because it’s true. When it comes to narcissists and other abusive personalities: Words […]
What Do You Do? Getting an Apology from a Narcissistic Ex After You’ve Gone No Contact
The first thing that comes to mind is Admiral Ackbar, “It’s a trap!” The second thing that comes to mind is the expression, “A day late and a dollar short.” Or a pound short, a euro short, a franc short, a drachma short, a doubloon short — you get the idea. But wait! narcissists, borderlines, […]
Surviving the Holidays with a Narcissist
Ding, dong! Ding, dong! Ding, dong! Ding, dong! It’s the most trigger-ful time of the year! With Narcissists yelling And Borderline dysregulation swelling, inducing fear It’s the most trigger-ful time of the year! It’s the crap-crappiest season of all! With fake Facebook greetings, emotional beatings And your family forbidden to call It’s the crap-crappiest season […]