Many abused men who have made the difficult decision to divorce a high-conflict, abusive and/or abusive personality-disordered wife are rarely able to make a quick and easy escape. I commonly advise clients who are about to begin the divorce process to prepare for false allegations of abuse, financial chicanery (e.g., hiding funds, identity fraud, inflated […]
Are You An Abused Man? Three Questions
It’s still really difficult for me to admit that I was abused; that I’m an abused man.” “My couples therapist told us men can’t be abused and that my wife is just emotional and I need to be more understanding and patient with her.” “I just don’t how I went from being a happy guy, […]
Scenes from an Abusive Marriage: Should You Post an Abusive Wife’s Behavior on YouTube?
There’s a topic thread being discussed on the Shrink4Men Forum this week about a series of videos posted on YouTube by a man who suspects his wife has Borderline Personality Disorder or some combination of Cluster B personality traits based on how he’s tagged the videos. There are 11 videos in all, which are disturbing […]