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October 6, 2011

Relationships with High-Conflict People: Assessing Threat and Risk

The following article is written by Mellaril, a long time Shrink4Men community member, whom many of you may recognize from his insightful and helpful comments on the original S4M blog, website and forum. In the article, Mellaril compares an intimate relationship with a high-conflict person to a phenomenon called insider threat, which gives new meaning […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Borderline Personality Disorder, Dating, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Healthy Relationships, High-Conflict, Marriage, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Psychological Abuse, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Unhealthy Relationships Tagged With: borderline personality disorder, borderline waif, dating, empathy, HCP, high-conflict, high-conflict individuals, high-conflict people, high-conflict women, hoover, hoovering, impact, insider threat, Mellaril, relationships, relationships with high-conflcit people, remorse, risk, threat, vulnerabilty

July 6, 2011

To the Victim Go the Spoils: False Allegations, Men as Default Scapegoats and Why Some Women Get Away with Murder

Look at that poor woman crying! I wonder what he did to her? Pretend the image on the left is a Thematic Apperception Test card and make up a story about it. Is the woman crying because she discovered her boyfriend had been cheating on her, dumped her and emptied their joint account to go […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Blame, Domestic Violence, High-Conflict, Negative Advocates, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse, Stalking and Harassment Tagged With: abusive personality disordered individual, antisocial personality disorder, Avoidant Personality Disorder, borderline personality disorder, Casey Anthony, Dependent Personality Disorder, Dominique Strauss-Kahn, Dr Tara J. Palmatier, empathy, high-conflict people, histrionic personality disorder, Julian Assange, narcissistic personality disorder, Paranoid Personality Disorder, professional victim, Shrink4Men, sympathy, Tracy West, Warren Farrell

November 10, 2010

Why Some High-Conflict Personality Disordered Women Kill

Last week’s article Theresa Riggi Kills Her Children in Bitter Divorce Battle: Does She Have a Personality Disorder? asks the question what makes the unthinkable thinkable for some high-conflict people (HCPs) and/or some individuals with personality disorders? Why do some cross the line and commit murder, while others are content to perpetrate psychological violence like […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Divorce, Domestic Violence, High-Conflict, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Legal, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Negative Advocates, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Professional Victims, Rage Tagged With: abuse, antisocial personality disorder, Betty Broderick, Borderline Personality Disorder, domestic violence, Elaine Campione, empathy, high-conflict people, Leisa Jones, narcissistic abuse, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, negative advocates, selective empathy, splitting, Theresa Riggi, violent women, women killers

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