If you are or have been in a relationship with a borderline (BPD), a narcissist (NPD) or a psychopath, at some point you’ve undoubtedly been told (perhaps ad nauseum), “You need to love me unconditionally. I expect unconditional love from you.” If you’re like many of the men and women I work with, you probably […]
BlogTalkRadio: Thinking with the Big Head Instead of the Lower Brain
This BlogTalkRadio program, which aired in April 2012, discusses the merits of thinking with the big head instead of the “little head” and lower brain. In other words, it’s about making healthier relationship choices. Too many otherwise intelligent men and women get themselves into trouble by choosing romantic partners based solely upon physical attraction and/or […]
You Have 65,000 Missed Calls: Women Who Use Telephones as Weapons to Stalk and Harass
Last week in the Netherlands, Dutch prosecutors charged a 42-year-old woman with stalking. She allegedly called a man with whom she claims to have had a relationship 65,000 times in the past year. The male victim of the telephone stalking and harassment denied that he had a relationship with the woman. The 62-year-old man filed […]