How do narcissists react when you catch them lying? Narcissists, borderlines, histrionics, and other toxic people rarely admit their lies. They’re psychologically incapable of it. There’s seldom a moment of chagrined embarrassment, as if to say, “Well, you got me!” They won’t acknowledge that your memory of events is accurate, nor will they admit that […]

Understanding how male abuse victims differ from female abuse victims in terms of the roles they assume, like the protector-provider role, is essential to more effectively support men who experience intimate partner violence and narcissistic abuse. This article draws on my 15+ years of clinical experience helping abused men. For context, my career began with […]

Should I wish my NPD ex a happy birthday? Or, what I like to call No-Win Situation #763. This isn’t a trick question. In fact, it’s a good example of the kind of no-win situations many people who share custody with a crazy ex have a tough time navigating. Many of my clients who share […]