Shrink4Men

Helping men in abusive relationships since 2009

In His Own Words: Pretty Little Liar

It’s day 26 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Kenneth had an abusive, borderline personality disordered stepmom. Children with an abusive parent(s) are essentially groomed to tolerate and accept abuse. They are often told that the abuse they experience is their fault. This can create the […]

In His Own Words: Married to a Borderline

It’s day 25 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Have you ever wondered why we view men’s violence as criminal behavior and women’s violence as mental illness? Have you ever considered the ramifications of doing so? Male abusers are seen as bad men that women and […]

In His Own Words: Victimized by Victim Support Advocates

It’s day 24 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Today’s In His Own Words is an example of the systemic abuse to which men and boys are frequently subjected. It’s also an example of how many women use victimhood (real or imagined) as a form of […]