Shrink4Men

Helping men in abusive relationships since 2009

In His Own Words: FUBAR

It’s day 29 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Christopher is married to an abusive alcoholic woman whom he suspects has borderline personality disorder. Christopher, my advice to you is stop trying to protect and help her, and focus on protecting and helping yourself instead. Otherwise, […]

In His Own Words: Just Another BPD Mom

It’s day 28 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Like many men featured in the In His Own Words series, Jimbeaux fell in love with and married a woman with Borderline Personality disorder. She abused him and their son. She made false allegations. She tried to alienate their […]

In His Own Words: Namaste Bitches

It’s day 27 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. “Luke” thought he had met the love of his life — a mother of two, a writer and a yoga instructor. On the surface, she seemed to have it altogether. Then, on a once in a lifetime […]