Oh, Dr Phil. . . From time to time, Shrink4Men community members email to let me know that they’ve sent links of my articles to the Dr Phil and Oprah shows because they believe the material here is important and should be seen by a wider audience. I thank them, but tell them not to […]
What Is DARVO? Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender
What is DARVO? Deny, attack and reverse victim and offender. Have you ever wondered why your narcissistic or borderline spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend or ex is able to do and say the most hurtful, underhanded and contemptible things and then portray themselves as the innocent victim? Do you marvel at how they’re able to aggress and […]
High-Conflict and Abusive Personality-Disordered Women: The Emotional Judging Mind Vs. the Discerning Mind
The following article was written by one of my clients, also a doctor, but in another health field. He’s the same client who created the High-Conflict Phases of Abuse, Blame-Shifting, Distortion, Rage and Manipulation Diagram. In the article below, he sorts out the difference between having a judgmental mind versus having a discerning mind. He […]