Is it okay to call a borderline or narcissistic ex crazy? Do you describe ice as cold? Is it insensitive to describe Saint Bernard’s as furry? If you burn your hand on the stove is it insensitive to exclaim, “That’s hot!” Is it okay to say Kermit the Frog is green? Basically, if someone projects […]

In Couples Counseling with Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 1, I explain the inherent difficulties in doing couples therapy with personality disordered partners. In many cases, couples counseling with narcissists and borderlines becomes a theater of blame. Essentially, the therapy office becomes another stage upon which the abuse, blame shifting and projection play out.  Moreover, these […]

Attention Internet! The self-cannibalizing Woke Elite have declared that the word “trigger” (as in trigger warning) is now triggering. Especially for people with alleged trauma histories, the cognitive dissonance handicapped, people who can’t tolerate differences of opinion and professional grievance gatherers. I’m talking about trigger warnings, borderlines, narcissists and walking on eggshells. Because that’s what […]