Many clients wrongly believe that if they finally start to set boundaries in an already established relationship with a borderline or narcissistic partner, it will magically fix the relationship. Spoiler alert: It won’t. In fact, it often makes things worse. Nevertheless, boundaries in relationships are both healthy and essential. I encourage all clients to set […]
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So your Tinder Date Tells You She Has BPD
So your Tinder date tells you she has BPD (borderline personality disorder) . . . Perhaps it went a little something like this: Tinder date: Soooo, I should let you know I have BPD. You: What does that mean? Tinder date: It just means I get a little emotional from time to time. [Insert funny […]
Lake Tantrum: James Mongiat is Wrong
Trigger Warning: If you are married to a mentally unstable, emotionally immature woman who abuses alcohol, the following video may induce acute anxiety, flashbacks and/or a feeling of unease and foreboding. On the other hand, if you have broken up with or divorced a woman who exhibits the following behavior, you may feel a great […]