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October 22, 2014

In His Own Words: Nice Guy Meets Abusive Borderline Personality Disordered Woman, Part One

It is day 22 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today’s In His Own Words tells the tale of Kyle,  nice guy from an abusive family who fell for and married an abusive woman who likely has Borderline Personality Disorder. When I first met my second wife, D, I thought she was perfect. She was everything […]

Filed Under: Abuse, Abusive relationships, Borderline Personality Disorder

October 8, 2014

In His Own Words: I Tried to Kill Myself After Dating a Borderline Personality Disordered Woman

It is day 8 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today’s story is from an Indian man, Pankaj, who went to the depths of despair and back after being in a very abusive relationship with a woman he suspects has Borderline Personality Disorder. I have been a quiet lurker on Shrink4Men for past 1 year now. […]

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March 27, 2025

BPD Ambush: How Borderlines Weaponize Couples Therapy

When a borderline or narcissistic partner feels their control slipping — when accountability, boundaries, or the threat of divorce enter the picture — they often weaponize couples therapy to regain power and reclaim their victim narrative. The therapy room isn’t neutral ground. It becomes a new front where the borderline or narcissist tries to recruit […]

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