When I say basic, I mean basic. What can you do for yourself today that a good mom or dad would have done for you when sending you off to your first day of school? What would you do for your own child (if you’re a parent)? Do you have hole-riddled socks and dingy underwear […]
Mating Call of the Codependent: Calling All Damsels and Dudes in Distress! [Meme]
Happy Independence (not Codependence) Day! If you’re looking for a project, may I suggest a new deck? Trying to make someone dependent upon you is not a healthy relationship foundation. Furthermore, the rescuing, saving, fixing, people-pleasing, sacrifices and enabling are a one-way street. If you think it’ll eventually be your turn, you are mistaken. Adult […]
That’s a Lie! Manipulated Into Marriage [Meme]
LIE: “I only act this way because you haven’t proposed yet!” Or any variation of, “I act like a lunatic because you make me!” FACT: What the narcissist or other abusive personality is actually saying is they think it’s okay to behave outrageously and abusively if they’re not getting what they want, my precious. BUT […]