[Ducking behind the potted fern in my well-stocked panic room.] To any woman seeing this who reflexively feels defensive and angry, replace “her” with “him” and “you go girl!” drunkies with “duuuuuuuude!!!!” strip club selfies. Uh-huh. Why are these behaviors red flags? Because they’re middle aged women who: a) Regularly post drunkies (i.e., drunk selfies). […]

This. Is. Not. Normal. Healthy adults don’t ping pong between love and hate rapidly and regularly. Feelings of love and deep attachments grow over time, not on your first Tinder date. This is an example of emotional intensity, not emotional depth. When feelings run deep they don’t change on a dime because your girlfriend, boyfriend […]

It’s one of those moments in a relationship with Crazy when all the puzzle pieces begin to fall into place. This occurs in relationships between narcissistic/borderline men and codependent women, too. There are three possible scenarios: 1) The person claiming their exes are all narcissists and empath status for themselves is actually the narcissist. Their […]