In other words, ignore their personality disorder now, pay later. And sometimes for 18 years plus. Not to mention the emotional damage you incur. Don’t ignore Psycho. It will bite you on the ass every time and has a helluva long half life. Facebook post conversation here. Counseling, Consulting and Coaching with Dr. Tara J. […]
That’s Not Normal: “You Need to Fight for Me!” [Meme]
Why isn’t this normal? How much time do you have? Healthy couples work together, not against each other. “You need to fight for me” usually means you’re fighting against their lifelong character pathology. So you fight them, and then get blamed for fighting with them. It doesn’t end until you step out of it and […]
Boundaries Protect You from Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 3: The Very Basics
In Part 1 of this series, I discuss the importance of the law of reciprocity. If a relationship isn’t reciprocal, it will eventually become a source of anger and resentment. Healthy relationships can’t exist on a one-way street paved with double standards. Part 2 explains the joy of saying no. I discuss secondary gains and […]
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