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How do you tell a narcissist you want a divorce? Or, tell a borderline, a psychopath, a histrionic or other abusive personality that you want a divorce? Don’t do it until you’ve done the necessary prep work. Once you you have, do so with caution and a recording device. Obviously, there’s a bit more to […]

Introduction: Do Narcissists and Borderlines Have a Type? Yes, they do. But it’s not so much a “type” as a set of preferred traits. Narcissists and borderlines may focus on certain demographics—young, old, muscular, thin, or curvy. As they age, these preferences may change. Notice I didn’t say mature. Some narcissists and borderlines seek “high-status” […]

Co-parenting with Narcissists and Borderlines: Defining the Problem. This is the first in a video series about the challenges of raising healthy kids with the high-conflict parent. Or rather, raising healthy kids in spite of the high-conflict parent. Actually, traditional co-parenting with personality disordered parents usually doesn’t work. A better approach is parallel parenting. Part […]