Actually, the personality disordered are Boring AF. This video is based on the article, Why Are Narcissists and Borderlines More Exciting Than Healthy Women and Men? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_IV3bSaznM Counseling, Consulting and Coaching with Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD helps individuals work through their relationship and codependency issues via telephone or Skype. […]

Boundary is a frequently used self-help genre term. Just because it’s routinely used doesn’t mean it’s well-understood. Some people believe a boundary is something used to control others. It isn’t. Some people think having boundaries will magically change a personality disordered individual’s personality. It won’t. For example, many clients mistakenly believe creating boundaries (after not […]

Many clients become hyper-focused on spotting personality disorder Red Flags after being in a relationship with an abusive narcissist, borderline or psychopath. They’re reluctant to date again until they feel certain they’ll be able to detect all the warning signs. This is understandable. After being burned that badly, of course you don’t want to go […]