First, stop it, stop it, stop it! Just stop. Unless you’re a modern day messiah or member of some kind of bizarre-o volcano god cult that requires human sacrifice, stop and consider what you’re doing. This is codependent behavior and evidence of a betrayal bond or trauma bond. People who love you and want you […]
That’s Not Normal: False Equivalencies in Relationships with Narcissists and Borderlines
This anecdote is from the client files. First, this man isn’t a porn addict. In other words, he wasn’t watching pornography 24 hours a day, 7 days awake. He also prefers having sex with an actual woman to viewing Internet porn). However, he was is a sexless marriage for years and didn’t want to cheat. […]
Walking Away from Pointless Conflict (i.e., Not Fighting for Her) Doesn’t Make You a Narcissist
From an alternate universe not nearly far enough away — Planet Empath! Where if anyone does something you don’t like (or isn’t willing to tolerate your bullshit), you’re a narcissist. This morning, a woman posted a comment to a meme I posted last week, “That’s Not Normal: You need to fight for me and the […]
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