Narcissists, borderlines, psychopaths and histrionics are frequently also pathological liars. Pathological liars, regardless of an official diagnosis, follow predictable behavior patterns when their lies are exposed. If you’re in an abusive relationship with one of these individuals, you may have experienced one or more of the following reactions when catching them red-handed in a lie: […]

Ever feel like you and the narcissistic or borderline spouse or ex are speaking two different languages? That, even though you’re technically using the same words, they have different meanings? If so, it’s probably because their definitions of, for example, “co-parenting” and “abuse” are much different than the definitions found in Merriam-Webster’s dictionary. This can […]

In this video, I debunk the urban legend that borderlines and narcissists are some kind of mythical, magical sexual virtuosos to which healthier (i.e., non-disordered) women and men can’t compare. It’s rubbish. Furthermore, if you continue to repeat the falsehood you’re undermining your own healing. Once you accept that you have value and worth, you […]