Breaking up with a borderline girlfriend or wife can be incredibly difficult. The same is generally true for all abusive women whether they’re a borderline or some other kind of toxic personality. Of course, it can be just as difficult breaking up with abusive men. However, straight women experience far less stigma for being abuse […]

So your Tinder date tells you she has BPD (borderline personality disorder) . . . Perhaps it went a little something like this: Tinder date: Soooo, I should let you know I have BPD. You: What does that mean? Tinder date: It just means I get a little emotional from time to time. [Insert funny […]

When your borderline or narcissist wife tells the couples therapist she feels “unsafe,” what do you do? The same goes for histrionic, sociopathic and other toxic personality wife, girlfriend, or ex. If you’ve never been physically violent or made threats of physical violence, don’t minimize or ignore the very real threat your partner and (potentially) […]