How are professional martyrs and professional victims different? Or, to put it another way, what’s the difference between bad shellfish and bad pork? Both are toxic and will likely make you sick, albeit in different ways. Professional martyrs and professional victims are like dysfunctional kissing cousins. Ultimately, they’re more similar than dissimilar. Both professional victims […]

Why did my crazy ex contact my therapist? Why did my narcissist, borderline or histrionic wife contact my therapist without my knowledge or permission? Well, Crazy does crazy things. It’s a combination of their control issues and lack of boundaries. Yes, Crazy wants to control you in the relationship. Crazy also wants to control the […]

Ending a Relationship with an Abusive Woman is the third and final article in a three part series. The first two articles are Breaking Up with a Borderline Girlfriend and Breaking Up with a Narcissistic Girlfriend, respectively. Ending a relationship with an abusive woman. Breaking up with an abusive woman — whether she’s a borderline, […]