In this video, I debunk the urban legend that borderlines and narcissists are some kind of mythical, magical sexual virtuosos to which healthier (i.e., non-disordered) women and men can’t compare. It’s rubbish. Furthermore, if you continue to repeat the falsehood you’re undermining your own healing. Once you accept that you have value and worth, you won’t require a narcissist or borderline to love bomb you into an imitation of self-esteem. Additionally, you’ll no longer mythologize the people who have abused and exploited you.
I also explore the characteristics and attributes necessary in order to have real emotional and sexual intimacy. As well as the lack of these qualities and capabilities in personality disordered individuals.
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Sex with a Borderline: Confusing Intensity and Pathology for Intimacy and Passion, Part 1
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