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Are you wondering, “Will my BPD ex be different with the next guy?” Maybe you’re asking yourself, “Am I giving up too soon? Should I try harder? Maybe things will go back to how they were.” Or worse, “Will the next guy get all the love, sex, and ‘nice’ version of her that I could’ve […]

Amber Heard’s “Consequences Are Unfair!” smear campaign interview with Dateline’s Savannah Guthrie is a smorgasbord of self-serving, self-pitying, long disproved bullshit. On the other hand, it’s also a great example of what I call the professional victim’s Victimpalooza Tour. Claiming false victim status is something many narcissists, histrionics and borderlines do at the end of […]

All kidding aside, you can relate, right? As many clients can attest, narcissists and borderlines sabotage relationships. No matter how hard (or harder) you try to love and help them, their destructiveness to self and others persists. For those who haven’t figured it out yet, love does not conquer all. Furthermore, “love” (i.e., codependency-driven people […]