So your Tinder date tells you she has BPD (borderline personality disorder) . . . Perhaps it went a little something like this: Tinder date: Soooo, I should let you know I have BPD. You: What does that mean? Tinder date: It just means I get a little emotional from time to time. [Insert funny […]

When your borderline or narcissist wife tells the couples therapist she feels “unsafe,” what do you do? The same goes for histrionic, sociopathic and other toxic personality wife, girlfriend, or ex. If you’ve never been physically violent or made threats of physical violence, don’t minimize or ignore the very real threat your partner and (potentially) […]

Are you vulnerable to love bombing? Is it difficult for you to resist the high highs of intense instant attraction? Do you believe in love at first sight? Do most of your relationships begin and end with a “bang,” albeit different kinds of bangs? For example, your relationships begin with crazy chemistry and end as […]