If you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist or other abusive personality, you’ve probably become conditioned to preface many of your spoken and written statements with, “I’m sorry.” I’m sorry to bother you. I’m sorry I have feelings and needs. I’m sorry you had to cheat on me. I’m sorry I can’t read your […]

If you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist or other emotionally unstable, immature individual, you’re probably well-acquainted with the hell that is a circular argument. You know, an argument that causes your brain to spin round in circles. Kidding aside, a circular argument is an argument in which the conclusion is used to support […]

As discussed in Translating Crazy: Narcissist and Borderline Buzz Words and Phrases, even though narcissists, borderlines and other toxic personalities speak the same language and use the same words as you, they often mean something quite different to the narcissist. If you operate under the belief that narcissists and other abusers use language as defined […]