Being loved unconditionally by your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend seems reasonable, right? Wrong. Unconditional love is for children, not adults. Even with kids, good enough parents love their children, but correct them when they misbehave and teach them right from wrong. What toxic personalities often mean by “unconditional love” is love without accountability. In […]

For many narcissists and borderlines, drama and conflict serve many purposes. Primarily, both conflict and drama are sources of attention and a way to keep their victims engaged. If you’re dealing with this, you know how exhausting it is. This video discusses ways you can disengage and put your focus back on yourself. https://youtu.be/ADVIrrqg54g Read […]

Partners of narcissist frequently forgo their own self-care and well-being in a futile attempt to obtain the narcissist’s love and approval hoping to return to the love bombing stage. If you’re doing this, stop. It’s impossible to make a pathologically bitter, unhappy person happy. Causing others misery and being the center of attention are as […]