Understanding Mobbing Mobbing in high-conflict divorce and custody disputes is something many of my clients are unprepared for when they enter the adversarial arena of Family court. If you are divorcing a narcissist, borderline, histrionic or other toxic personality, it is important that you are not caught unawares. Basically, mobbing is when an individual is […]

Future faking is exactly what it sounds like. It’s when someone — usually a narcissist, histrionic or borderline — makes fantastical statements about relationship plans in the future that’ll likely never come to fruition. For example: “I could see spending the rest of my life with you. I’ve never met anyone who made me think […]

Healing trauma from relationships with narcissists and borderlines, histrionics and the other Cluster B variety pack can be difficult. Sadly, difficult is an understatement. Some clients who were ensnared by a NPD, HPD or BPD have an easier time than others with the grief and healing process. These individuals aren’t representative of my typical clients, […]