Future faking is exactly what it sounds like. It’s when someone — usually a narcissist, histrionic or borderline — makes fantastical statements about relationship plans in the future that’ll likely never come to fruition. For example: “I could see spending the rest of my life with you. I’ve never met anyone who made me think […]

Healing trauma from relationships with narcissists and borderlines, histrionics and the other Cluster B variety pack can be difficult. Sadly, difficult is an understatement. Some clients who were ensnared by a NPD, HPD or BPD have an easier time than others with the grief and healing process. These individuals aren’t representative of my typical clients, […]

What does it mean if a narcissist says they hate you? To put it bluntly, it means they hate you. It’s harsh, but true. When a narcissist, borderline, histrionic or other Cluster B variety pack person says, “I love you” it doesn’t mean “I love you” the way it does to a normal or a […]