Some people begin relationships with the conscious expectation that they’ll be able to change their girlfriend/boyfriend into the person they want them to be. This is nuts. True personality change is rare. Communication skills, conflict resolution skills and an appreciation and respect of each others differences can be modified and improved. Temperament, attitudes, work ethic […]
That’s Not Normal: I Always Get What I Want
If she/he *always* gets what they want, when do you get what you want? If she/he expects you to *always* put them first, who’s putting you first? When do you get to matter? Do you understand that you matter? That your wants, feelings, needs and fears matter just as much as your partners? You matter. […]
That’s Not Normal: Resents your Successes
People who love you want good things for you. They want you to be happy. They applaud your successes and celebrate them with you. Narcissists and other toxic personalities often respond to their significant other’s or children’s successes with bitterness and resentment. They typically minimize and belittle your successes while simultaneously (with no appreciation of […]
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