Shrink4Men

 Tone-policing men’s pain is a cultural silencing tactic. One that serves to keeps male victims invisible and female perpetrators unaccountable. Supporting male victims isn’t evidence of misogyny. It shows that you have basic human decency. There are very few taboo topics left in modern society. Norms have all but been eroded. People shamelessly broadcast their […]

Therapy is supposed to be a place for clarity, accountability, and repair. But when one partner has borderline personality disorder (BPD) or severe borderline traits, therapy is often weaponized instead. Rather than fostering insight or mutual understanding, therapy becomes a stage for narrative control, therapist manipulation, and emotional coercion—leaving the non-BPD partner more confused, silenced, […]

When a borderline or narcissistic partner feels their control slipping — when accountability, boundaries, or the threat of divorce enter the picture — they they may invade their partner’s individual therapy to regain power and control the narrative.  In these cases, individual therapy is no longer a place for understanding and healing. It becomes the […]