Breaking up with a borderline girlfriend can be incredibly difficult. The same is generally true for all abusive women whether she’s a borderline or some other kind of toxic personality. Of course, it can be just as difficult breaking away from an abusive man. However, straight women experience far less stigma for being abuse victims. […]

So your Tinder date tells you she has BPD (borderline personality disorder) . . . Perhaps it went a little something like this: Tinder date: Soooo, I should let you know I have BPD. You: What does that mean? Tinder date: It just means I get a little emotional from time to time. [Insert funny […]

When your BPD wife tells the couples therapist she feels “unsafe,” what do you do? Same goes for a histrionic, narcissistic or some other Cluster B variety-pack high-conflict personality wife, girlfriend or ex — what do you do? If you’ve never been physically violent or made threats of physical violence, don’t minimize or ignore the […]