Going Mental: Using the 5 Fears of Borderlines and Narcissists to Get Rid of Them

Going Mental is back, and we’ll get into the fine tuning of dealing with Crazy. By Crazy, of course we mean personality disordered basilisks who can put more chaos into your personal life than a battalion of blind drunk soccer hooligans. There are 5 basic fears common to these life-wreckers. If you know what those […]

Going Mental: How Do You Know When a Sociopath, Narcissist or Borderline Is Lying?

Their lips are moving. The End. That’s a facile and clichéd answer, but, more often than not, an accurate one. Sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists, borderlines and histrionics lie for many reasons. Self-preservation (e.g., to avoid jail or other unwanted natural consequences for their bad behavior), to manipulate or exploit others to get money, sympathy, power, attention, security, a relationship […]

In His Own Words: Conned by a Female Sociopath

It’s day 28 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. “Beeker” shares his story about how his true love became his abuser. Our eyes met across a crowded room. As trite as it sounds, that is how I met the woman who became my wife and my abuser… the Hungarian Horntail. The cafeteria was loud and boisterous. […]