This was one of the bigger questions I faced, after things ended with my ex. Admitting to myself that I needed therapy was akin to admitting guilt to all of the things I had been accused of. It felt like I was surrendering and agreeing that she was right – that it was all my […]
Breaking Up with an Abusive Girlfriend or Wife: Staring into the Abyss
“When you look into the abyss, it’s not supposed to wave back…” –Terry Pratchett This has been a difficult post for me to start, as it involves confronting some of my own demons. That said, it’s time to talk about The Darkness. After breaking up with the ex, I felt euphoric. The relief I felt […]
How to Get Over an Abusive Girlfriend or Wife: Break the Routines
She’s finally out of your life. The last of her things have been removed from your home, and she’s gone. You have a tremendous sense of emptiness, and a tremendous sense of relief. And, let’s face it, you feel pretty guilty about feeling the relief. What do you do next? The house is finally quiet. […]