No winning! The narcissist or borderline always wins because they control the rules in their relationships. And the rules are one-sided and self-serving. You will always lose if you play by their rules. Insist that they respect your boundaries and hold yourself and themselves accountable. That’s how you win. It will also likely end the relationship as the narcissist or borderline runs screaming into the night about what an abusive asshole you are. Like I said, winning!
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